How do you express your emotions?
Posted on Oct 14th, 2008
by
CentriRitanni
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for October 14, 2008:
Emotions are an odd thing: everyone has them, but everyone practices them differently. I am a seemingly very callous person, but this is only because I must logically rationalize before acting. Some of the closest people to me envy this; more of them simply cannot understand it.
I do not believe that expressing yourself by crying, whispering, hugging, or whatever you wish to do shows weakness. Not at all. However when I see it in myself, it puts me in a position I am not ready to face, thus I attempt to avoid it as much as possible. Whenever something sad happens, rather than crying, I poke through the entire situation and continue to break it down until I find some little inkling of humor in the situation, then I break everything else down around that.
The only plus side to my approach to emotion is that I have very little stress issues. When I can logically state the facts of an issue, it is easier for me to mentally process it and then let it go. Often when I tell stories about myself it is in third person, and this is for the same reason; it is easier to state facts than to say "and I" or "to me".
I do not often express strong emotions. Usually my emotional expressions are minimal and I always try to pull humor into whatever else it may be. This is no claim to betterment, simply what I do.
Laughing herself to death,
Centri
I do not believe that expressing yourself by crying, whispering, hugging, or whatever you wish to do shows weakness. Not at all. However when I see it in myself, it puts me in a position I am not ready to face, thus I attempt to avoid it as much as possible. Whenever something sad happens, rather than crying, I poke through the entire situation and continue to break it down until I find some little inkling of humor in the situation, then I break everything else down around that.
The only plus side to my approach to emotion is that I have very little stress issues. When I can logically state the facts of an issue, it is easier for me to mentally process it and then let it go. Often when I tell stories about myself it is in third person, and this is for the same reason; it is easier to state facts than to say "and I" or "to me".
I do not often express strong emotions. Usually my emotional expressions are minimal and I always try to pull humor into whatever else it may be. This is no claim to betterment, simply what I do.
Laughing herself to death,
Centri

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